I have heard this too. You don't want them to come home too soon. It is a tight rope walk. It is hard to know what to do. I don't know either. I think you are supposed to accept some but not all invites, according to DR.You want to keep an open connection, but you want to leave them wanting more. Think Seinfeld. Finish on top.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9