Thank you Was2sad for your time and words. I have talked to a few people at work and it is amazing how many have kids who did things. I have calmed a lot and just want her to get whatever she needs to be happy and healthy. I really thought I was stronger but it caused a big flashback to when H left. We will be ok and I am proud that I did not bug the C about H today! AND I will shut my mouth and let her lead the conversation tomorrow with DD and myself. <fingers crossed>
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing