thank you so much for the advice. i needed the kick in the butt right now to get out of the shellshocked stage.
i hadn't come up with a solution for the house situation, but just standing my ground definitely is the right move on this one.
the GAL may be difficult to be somewhat available, but not easily available-i'll have to get creative on this one.
detachment is going to be tricky too, since we seem to have "connectivity" issues, but I think I may have a couple rabbits left in the hat on that one.
I think you guys(and gals) hit it right on the mark-time to get busy ;\)


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To give up when all is against you is a sign of being weak and cowardly. --Chief Eagle, Teton Sioux