Yesterday I went to the attorney's office and went through our decree so they can write up the final decree. I get to take the papers to H when they are ready. What fun that will be???? I keep saying what does it matter if a piece of paper will make me feel better...but I am ready to get it over with. Don't take me the wrong way i DON't a D or anything else but he is so far gone. He has a GF that is 21 and he is 29 and all he hangs around with is her and her younger sisters. She lives with him and it really bothers me. I guess I need to feel blessed that she likes my girls and is good to them...so I guess I need to be thankful for that. I am still a little sour he got the house we bought BUT he didn't pay the taxes last year and the taxes just came out this year..so they paid it. His 1st lien payment went from 891.00 to 1697.00..and his Mom hired him and is paying his house note!! Wouldn't it be nice to have rich parents??!!! and the sad thing is that his parents are not that well off. I am not sure why she keeps paying everything for him. All that does is give him the way to go out and get drunk every night. This morning he looked TERRIBLE when I dropped the girls off with him. Anyway enough about my whining...thanks for listening!!