Big hugs MOrgs.....lots I want to say but I have to go to a meeting.
Breathe...
next time he is an ass, repeat this to yourself. "I have warm personal regard for [name] at all times" I'll explain a bit more later.....It's from the book Facing Love Addiction by Pia Mellody and it sounds like what he was doing was "emotionally bombing" you to create some form of connection, no matter how icky.
