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[Yoyowife]

GISH,
I hate to say it, but I don't think you have any say in it. You can tell her no, and she will do it any way. It doesn't mean that you approve of it or accept it. Don't tell her to have a good time, don't say anything to her. Try to be gone when she goes out and it will make it easier on you.

Just give things time and see how much you are willing to put up with to save your marriage. I know it's hard. Through all of this I've prayed for guidance, strength, calmness, and patience. I'm not saying being a doormat, but just think things out before you act.