Went to C with XH. It was like the XH show. He brought and ARSENAL of stuff to discuss with the T. It was kind of funny. It was all about how when I don't do "what he wants" and how I don't trust him..I listened..I even cried. He still intimidates the living hell out of me.
We discussed the OW. I said to him that when the two of you are around the kids, you make some poor decisions based on the emotional drama the two of you create. I told him that I don't want the kids around that.
I don't have much time but I was very emotional. It was hard to sit in an office and still see how cocky he is and so much the same..Full of himself and so satisified to see me get nervous, even cry. I don't know what he wants from me, I really don't.
I did tell him I didn't like it when OW comes up to the house when he gets the kids and prances all around. Taking her dog out, talking to the neighbors..playing with her kids on the lawn. I said there is no humility at all.
So what does he do..
I look outside yesterday at the time he is supposed to get the kids for the night..
His mom was outside.. THe Rat was there.. The Rat was there WITH HER NEW DOGDGE DART or whatever the f it was..Sorry..it didn't impress me..
SO, what I told my XH about not wanting "fiascos'" at pickup really worked, huh?
He is a sick ticket.
So what did I do?
I made sure I looked as good as a rock star and went out and greeted his mom whom I haven't seen in two years..Fake smile Fake smile..how are you..fake back pat..lol
New Guy pulls up..OMG you should have seen his face..the poor guy was working on my chimney and had to go to his parents house to get tar remover..in the span of ten minutes since he left..the circus started..
The rat even had her piece of tin car blocking the driveway! She had to go back it up..
New Guy was great..walked right up to XH's mom and shook her hand..My XMIL looked like she was going to pass out she was so nervous..plus, New Guy isn't too hard on the eyes, either..
wink wink
XH didn't even look at me. The Rat snarled her way back in the stupid car because I looked so not rattled..Not phased..
Plan backfired..oh well..
So, now we have another session on Tuesday..Now I know what NOT TO TELL him..Anything I say to him that admits my vulnerablity will be used against me when he is in evil man mode, just like yesterday..
Oh, btw..yesterday was my 15th Anniversary..
Before all that crap went down last night..I got a text from XH Happy 15th Anniversary..
