Now I've done it.... again #4?

[Gingersnap]

He comes over here and acts like he is doing me some big favor by forgiving ME for my shortcomings and considering coming home. Am I missing something here? Shouldn't he be trying to get back into my good graces? I'm supposed to just be grateful for what he is willing to dish out? A couple hours a week while he constantly checks his watch? And this is while he's on vacation. What will happen when he goes back to work? He goes back in November and then she will be on vacation. I am supposed to just let him come and go as he pleases?

how'd you get in my head like that? Good grief these are the same exact questions I ask myself almost every day. How is it that the whole sitch gets turned around and it's about US being ok and them cutting us some slack and coming back home?

I mean, of course we want them home, or we wouldn't be DB'ing. But at what cost? There HAS to be an effort, a sincere, deeply felt effort to change and work on the M. I don't see that in my H...and reading your sitch I don't see it in yours.

Wish I had the answer for you.