When he was being an idiot, you told him, straight up, where things really stood: that on your 10th wedding anniversary, he was being a total schmuck.
I dont understand, why YOU were quite so understanding, about "this being hard for him". That's one of the most ludicrous things that "they" seem to universally come up with: that "this is so hard for them".
How can they possibly expect sympathy for abandoning all common decency, by betraying their spouse and their children?? It's beyond me.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
