Celebrate the little things. I have difficulty doing that myself. But at least he IS saying things that are positive. Concentrate on those. No matter what you want him to be healthy and in control of his life again. Encourage the good. Try to ignore the bad and pray the Lord will convict his heart to turn things around.
And you, my dear, are not pathetic. You are a loving wife and mom.
Me (36) H (42) M (12) S-8 D-5 SS-18 D Day (PA) 12/02 S 10/03 R 1/03 S again 9/07 I choose Joy.