D@MMIT!!! I should not have to talk with H when I am sick!! *SCREAMS*....

H just called. He never calls from work but he did anyway. Asking me how I feel, my day, the kids, etc. Seemed in no hurry to chat with the kids. Told me he was planning on taking them the the in-laws in Tenn. for the weekend. Wanted to leave Friday night. I said "Fine, I'll have them ready." He said "Don't be like that...I'll come over and we'll have dinner together and we'll leave later. That way the kids will sleep. You have to work anyway, right?" I'm a photographer and have sessions each weekend. I told him one canceled for Sat. AM but the PM slot was still booked. I told him it would be weird for me to go, anyway, He said - gently "Just chill out, ok?". I stayed silent.

So he talks to the kids. Then he asks "Do you miss me?". Tears start falling and I blurt out "More than I feel I can let on...a lot more" *insert kicking oneself here*. He says "I miss you too. " I think I heard a shaky voice on his end too. I said "I'll just take that as an awesome sign for now". He said "Yeah, I think it is" ..then says he couldn't do this at work, but he'd come by early tomorrow.

Did I just mess up? I don't want him home just because he feels good. He has LOTS of anger and issues to work through. But I also want to make good progress. If not DB'ing I don't know what to do, kwim?

*my head hurts.*

Last edited by Gingersnap; 10/18/07 11:31 PM.
Me (36) H (42)
M (12)
S-8 D-5 SS-18
D Day (PA) 12/02
S 10/03 R 1/03
S again 9/07
I choose Joy.