Just have to clarify this. H was kicked out of his house by his XW long before he and I had a physical R. I was not the cause of the first M breaking up...
Ah. thanks for clarifying it. that did not come across, in your original first-post summaries.
For the record, i think that your presence most definately was a factor in non-reconciliation there, even though it wasnt the original cause.
as far as your husband's comments:
If someone is sincere about reasons for leaving, they should be able to put it in terms of, "because you treat me like ...". They dont have any valid basis to TELL you, how YOU feel.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
