Everything is mellow around here. I'm about to leave for our MC appointment.

A few things:

1. H is trying on the love tank stuff. Is it everything I want? No. But there's serious effort, and so I'm acknowledging baby steps with the belief that more will follow.

2. H is also taking steps to find another job. He has my full support. No more talk of just running away with nothing else lined up.

So, these things are good. I just don't know how much I want to say...because it seems like keeping H on the hotseat is the only thing that works. In the past, when I said that things were better during MC, he started to back off what he was doing. Maybe I'll just say that I'm nervous about complimenting H because I'm afraid he'll back off. It's honest, right?

Anyway...just feeling tired and so not in the MC mood today. Should be interesting to hear what H has to say.....

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!