I'm not sure that it matters whether or not OW is involved. It sounds like both of you need the space and may have some personal issues to look at and that work may be easier to do when you are separated. At this point, it doesn’t matter so much how the two of you met. What is more important is how you can each grow into better individuals who can them come together in a maturer loving M.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
