I've been quietly following you sitch for a while, but could resist giving support on this one. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It's a particularly hard day to remain strong. I hope that you can avoid him when he gets home. I'm nine months into my separation and when my 16th anniversary came around, I purchased tickets to a Shakespeare play (which she loves) with hopes that even if she didnt want to work on our marriage, she would at least go to the play with me. She didnt want to and I gave the tickets away.
You are are good person. Stay strong.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair