It's been a long time since I posted, have been together (happily??!!) since august of 2006. 2 D's, 8 and 3. I've tried to stick to everything I learned while we were apart (sept 05-aug06). W has been acting funny since monday, then last night she drops another bomb on me, says we need to part ways and go on our separate paths. this one blindsided me big time, we had been talking about long term plans, and have just bought another house together in june this year. W says that she still L me,I am her best friend and she appreciates the fact that she can talk to me like no one else. However, she says she just doesn't have that type of feelings anymore and doesn't want to continue lying to herself or me about things. She says we're just on different levels and that I interfere with her energy. She has also told me that we will live together until after holidays, but then I need to find my own place. To me, this gives me some time to work at things since she isn't leaving this time or trying to throw me out right now,(a little daylight). Either way, this is a big time problem that I need to do something about now. Any insight or suggestions would help me greatly.
just_plain_hopeful
Anywhere's walking distance when you have enough time
To give up when all is against you is a sign of being weak and cowardly. --Chief Eagle, Teton Sioux
