I'm also sorry for you that you found this. I understand the hurt and anger. But, like my W, he probably feels that it's within the rules of separation. In my nine month separation, I have snooped and found out things about W and OM that I wish that I hadn’t. I've given up snooping.
This may be a phase that he is going through. If you want to still try and avoid divorce, I'd forget about it. But, do a 180 on how available you are to him. Stop sleeping with him. Let him know that you have other things in your life than him. Dont give him the impression that you just waiting around for him.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
