I know that it's hard, but try to hang in there. Who knows how W will feel/act in six months. I can tell you that my WAW went wild for her first six months of our separation. We have been separated for nine months now. She started dressing super sexy, drinking martinis, and going out several times a week. I continued to see our marriage counselor individually, but not her. Then a couple of months ago, she slowed down, started seeing a counselor, and has opened up more to me. We still may end of divorced, but what I'm trying to say is that it's likely that your W is confused and may change her tune over time. You have four kids that you both love. You cant point out the obvious, but the idea of keeping her family together might sound more attractive as the separation progresses.
Hang in there....
W and I have been separated now for nine months and for the first six months, she partied like I've never seen
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair