Lots of thoughts are going through my head. Looking back we never really discussed our problems that well. We sort of let things just slide. My fear is that if and when we ever get to the point where she feels good about us again will she be able to bring it up when in the past we havent always been good at discussing issues?
Down the road, if you reconcile, this can be a condition, that you actually talk about problems. Please RE-READ the down the road part.
Relizing that not talking about problems in the past might be a part of this is a good reason to actually do it in the future.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
