CVA - Not sure I have figured anything out?

[waw1978]

CVA

Do not be so hard on yourself. Its very hard to “get something” that another person is not sharing or explaining. Your W has made little to no efforts to indicate what she feels the issues are. You have been sort of groping around in the dark with a flashlight and a map but you have no idea if you have the right map. Who knows…you may be in Texas with a map from South Dakota. Isn’t really going to help much.

You have worked very hard with your C to make lasting changes now that you are aware of what you needed to improve on. You had the guts to face your issues head on and make progress.

I know the email to your W sounds daunting and it may head you towards D but it may not. Try to think of it as a 50/50. Either your W will make a move towards D or she will just make a move period! You do not deserve the holding pattern that you have been stalled in for so long.

I think your top 10 are in line with where you need to go to move forward in your life. You need to start thinking of you and what makes you happy.