he didnt have the internal strength of character to work on his first marriage (but instead left for you)
Just have to clarify this. H was kicked out of his house by his XW long before he and I had a physical R. I was not the cause of the first M breaking up....possibly helped stop any efforts on H's part to fix things, but not the cause.
You assumed a lot here and ruffled my feathers, so sorry if I've come across as defensive.
He has said (before he left) that he feels like we are hopeless because of the mistake he made 5 years ago. That I'll never forget and be constantly thinking he's having an A. This is not true, but most likely his reality.
Me (36) H (42) M (12) S-8 D-5 SS-18 D Day (PA) 12/02 S 10/03 R 1/03 S again 9/07 I choose Joy.
