puddle, totally didn't even think about the anonymity thing. Good idea.

agree on the phew about the dog getting adopted. might be H's way of trying to make himself happy?

on the having hope or not having it. I think it's okay to have some hope. Not the kind of hope that makes you dwell on it, or causes you to think that's the only way you'll survive. but a hope that maybe H will see the light and possibly change his mind about things, and I will still be open to reconciling. you know what I mean? hope is a good thing I think.

hope you have lots of fun on the camping thing, I've always wanted to do that! Will definitely have to make some kind of plans for it someday.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."