I know we need this S. I don't WANT him to come home before he's looked deep inside and committed to changing. But I think he views this as "when you straighten up I'll come home". No mention of M from him so I have no clue why we're S from his POV.
Sooo.. why did you say all that? What do you think he believes you need to "straighten up" ?
What specifically did he say, about when/why he moved out?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle