well, wow.

That's a whole different view point.

Regarding not meeting his emotional needs- he won't let me.
Here's a blurb from his profile: Looking to meet attractive single woman who loves the night life, the outdoors, music and laughter. I really like to be around others and interact but I also like time together to explore this beautiful state and be intimate.
The intimate things just makes me sick. SICK. I like the night life, I was BEGGING to go camping, I love concerts and I LOVE to laugh. I have made all sorts of suggestions to go to various places and spend the night, etc.

Life is too short to worry about the little things that dont matter anyway. I love to travel and want to spend much more time doing that now. I also like to be outdoors as much as possible but dont mind hanging around being lazy on Sundays. Friend and social activites are also important to me and I enjoy fun get togethers and adventures to anywhere.
Ummm...Ok. Me too. But, according to him, he didn't want to bring his friends around when he didn't know 'what was going to happen with us'. I would wager big money that if it was some 25 year old he met off match, he would be more than happy to include her.
Why am I bothering to try? WHY???


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing