Where do I go fromhere?

[smichael]

Lots of thoughts are going through my head. Looking back we never really discussed our problems that well. We sort of let things just slide. My fear is that if and when we ever get to the point where she feels good about us again will she be able to bring it up when in the past we havent always been good at discussing issues? As mentioned in my original post, early on I asked her if the separation dates we agreed upon were okay with her and she responded that she would get back to me in the next day or so. She never said a word. I guess its just part of the overall confusion. Thanks so much for listening.