MrsH, thanks for posting the article I'm glad you found it helpful.
Summer, I am the author this article and other divorce and marital problem related articles can be found at http://www.divorcesupport.about.com
It seems strange to see an article I wrote posted here. This message board was a second home to me for a couple of years. So much a home that I can't help but check out the posts a couple of times a month.
It breaks my heart to see that so many people are going through the same things I did but, I'm so glad this board is here to offer comfort, support and hope.
