Mrs.H, this article was helpful to me because it re-emphasizes what the role of the OP is...
I have been stuck in anger for a long time---anger about his affair and the betrayal of that...but I have to face my own responsibility reagarding the state of my marriage and the fact that my H chose to have an affair than to address the problems...also, those types of women are always on offer...
So this is helpful for me----to see that it is not personal....
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
