Same thing you should have been doing and be doing... focus on yourself, making your life great, making yourself whole, complete, and healthy no matter what.
Your H's profile on match.com is NOT the problem.
I agree with that;to a degree. My "problem" is that my decisions are affected by H and what he does. If he came to the house today and said "You need to be out by the end of the month, I am moving some 25 year old into the house" what I would do is in that situation is different than if he came to the house and said "I'm really messed up in the head. I *do* want to work on the marriage. Let's go to retrouvaille."
So, theoretically, I could make decisions with no regard to him, but seems harder to do in real life.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
