Before, I thought he was "thinking" about things and just "open" to going out with someone if they crossed his path.
Now he is actively looking- and I can see why he is trying to free up the weekends.
My girlfriend went thru the profile and said "He's describing you! He is soo messed up- he already has all of this with YOU! The only thing different is superficial things that don't last. The important things are you."
I don't know if anyone noticed, but my H is 44 and the search was for 25-40 year olds. He didn't even include women his age. And yet he repeatedly tells me that he isn't trying to just go out and F some younger woman.
I don't know what to say (if anything). He did say that Boldness/Assertiveness was a turn on for him. What would someone who is Bold/Assertive do? And to think, *I* felt bad for his crappy apartment complex.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
