One suggestion - QUIT looking on there. Obsessing about how many times he's logged in, when his last login was, who his matches might be, how his behavior may or may not change based on his latest login.... NONE of that is useful, helpful, healthy.
FOCUS ON YOU.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread