Half the reason I don't want to buy is because of the fear of the future, but the main is the money, we have to get ourselves sorted out first financially, Like I said to h awhile ago, getting a bike is something you do when you are financially set, everything is in order with your house(we have alot to do in our house) but if we bought a bike, his intent is for us both to have one, then we would be so financially strapped we probably couldn't afford to run them.
I just worry that he will resent me at some point because I keep saying no!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda