It's tough as hell to understand, but this is NOT about you!! My H did that when we went through this 6 years ago. He accused me of possilby having an A with a neighbor during the times that he'd be gone F'ing his OW. I wanted to laugh in his face and tell him that at least he picked a handsome, buff guy for someone he thought I'd sleep with! You are the closest person to him....the easiest one to take things out on. We shouldn't, but we always take things out on the one closest to us.
I HATE it when my H ignores me, so I understand the frustration there too. Just answer my question!! Don't be nice if you don't want to, but have the G'Damn courtesy to at least acknowledge me.
I really hope the rest of your day goes better. I'll check later. I need to jump over to Morgan to see how her day is.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day