That makes sense...I was told to "fake it til I make it" but I'm not fooling anyone, least of all myself... I just found out she's going away for the weekend with the OP. I know they're together every weekend anyway, so why is this so much more upsetting? Not to mention the fact that she owes me money, and I can't believe she would continue to disrespect me by not living up to her responsibilities and paying me before going off for a weekend of fun. We hadn't been away for a weekend in over a year because we were broke, and now off she goes.
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson