Jak, It was a cute note that your H wrote. I don't understand why he kept his back to you when you entered the bed. I'm not sure why he's being distant with you. One possibility is that he senses your dissatisfaction with the M, and is avoiding conflict.
Mixed messages and mystery are no fun. Avoidance on the part of your H is also no fun.
I think your plan of having a converstion on how to improve your recreational time together is a good one. He has to be willing to tolerate some conflict. This is a topic that has the potential to produce a positive outcome. Of course, he will struggle with it though and will need your persistence, patience, and guidance.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
