Sue, the article is in the MLD forum. The thread is "Interesting Article" I tried to put in a link, but it's not working very well.
lwb,
I don't think your H is back with OW. If he was, I think he would be sneaking around to keep it going and wouldn't be acting like such an idiot. Maybe he thought he would be able to reconnect when he went back to the school. Maybe this is the climax of him dealing with his rejection.
You don't deserve this. You have done everything right, by the book. Maybe it is time for another tactic, but I would wait til things cool down a little. It never seems to be a good thing when we make decisions while angry. I say lay low for a few more days and keep your eyes open.
(((HUGS)) lwb. He's being horrible. The nerve of him putting the blame on you!
I have some Tori for you
"I am not asking you to believe in me Boy, I think you're confused I'm not Persephone foam can be dangerous with tape across my mouth these things you do I never asked you how
Line me up in single file with all your grievances Stare but I can taste you're still alive below the waste ripples come and ripples go and ripple back to me back to me" (Pandora's Aquarium)
Brush this dust off your shoes and have a great day, lwb. You are above this BS, you are.
more (((HUGS))
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9