Oh girl ((((Hugs)))) these bombs are definitely harmful to us LBSs. But in reality nothing has truly changed in your sitch, except that you may want to reevaluate your boundaries and the ML part.

At least you have a bit more info now....don't know if that helps you or not but in my sitch I'm going buts wondering if there is an OW. It wouldn't change what I'm doing a bit, but at least I'd have better knowledge of my enemy in this war, kwim?

HUGS

Me (36) H (42)
M (12)
S-8 D-5 SS-18
D Day (PA) 12/02
S 10/03 R 1/03
S again 9/07
I choose Joy.