It too weird - but my H went down the same route 'purchase-wise', however I did cave but not b/c I thought he'd walk if we did not get it but b/c it seems like a good family item so we can all do something together.
I wanted a bike (Harley) for years but he's been wanting a boat - so we just bought a $30K used boat - I thought he was more committed to us back in July/August. So WTH???- why get some extavagant purchase and he cannot committ to me emotionally (his 2 words) - this confuses me too. This must be a symptom of being a WAS???? Are they filling some void that they thought OW could have filled??? Yes, I am over analyzing AGAIN!! Just get me to my Retro weekend - one week from tomorrow!
I did tell him if we D the boat and it's debt is ALL HIS!!!!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
