I would have said the same thing....if you love her then you'd want her to be happy, even if it meant without her. I've never agreed that dragging your feet when your spouse is pushing you does anything except turn their attention to bad thoughts of you. You don't want her perseverating on what a controlling person you are (ie "he still thinks he can control me by not signing these papers"). Does the piece of paper saying you are divorced the end all? Is it also stamped with, "and you can never be together again"?
I think your wife definitely has someone else. I'm sorry, but she's in a hurry for another reason. You can't control that, but it actually is a better sign for you if she thinks she wants someone else. If she wants out just because she doesn't want to be with you, she is less likely to try again that if there is someone else that she thinks is the cat's meow. Once the luster of someone else rubs off, she might actually wonder whether she quit too soon. Just my opinion.
Im not trying to control her, Im trying to buy me some time, to extend this as long as I can. Im not a controlling person, I never was. She hasnt filled the papers yet, she told me this morning that she was next month. No the papers do not say that signing the papers will end it all nor does it say that we can never be together again, I just know that my W is that kind of person, once she is finished with you she will not want anything to do with you. I know that she has had an emotional affiar, it was all through text messaging. I do not think that she has anyone unless she is wanting the OP. She said that she is ready to move on with her life and that I should accept that. How do I reply to her email about when I will sign them?? Here is what I have so far..No I do not know when, I just need some time...You're in a really hurry. Can you please be honest with me? Is there someone else? Listen I know that you had an emotional affair with Seth. I have seen all of the signs, if you disagree Im sorry but it stated everything that you did in the book. Have you even opened the book I got you? Under the chaper about infidelity, you may want to give that a look...Should I send it?
