muddled and angry: Puddle's third thread

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Glad to hear H isn't bringing the dog in. Why don't you compromise and just add one extra day of him coming over, and that day you can go have plans for yourself? That's just one day a week. Or don't change anything right now, and if the kids are wanting to see him more, then think about letting him come over more often and if you can't handle being there, try to get in a class, or church group, or something to be away while he's there.

I know that you haven't thought that H is having a PA, but I just say this only so that you aren't hit with another "bomb". It is very very likely that he's been having a PA. And, I'm definitely not saying that to make you feel worse, I just want you to be prepared for when you find out about it, or if and when it happens if it really hasn't happened yet. My H would never have told me, and would have continued to lie about it had I not, NOT believed him. oops, a double negative!

I know that you can handle anything that comes your way. You've been very strong about the whole thing. Just continue doing what your doing, taking care of yourself, force your PMA if you have to, and start having fun with your life. Don't focus on H. And you know what? No matter what there is still hope. you never know what holds for your future.

definitely get that PMA up and have fun with the kids!!!! pronto!!