I would have said the same thing....if you love her then you'd want her to be happy, even if it meant without her. I've never agreed that dragging your feet when your spouse is pushing you does anything except turn their attention to bad thoughts of you. You don't want her perseverating on what a controlling person you are (ie "he still thinks he can control me by not signing these papers"). Does the piece of paper saying you are divorced the end all? Is it also stamped with, "and you can never be together again"?
I think your wife definitely has someone else. I'm sorry, but she's in a hurry for another reason. You can't control that, but it actually is a better sign for you if she thinks she wants someone else. If she wants out just because she doesn't want to be with you, she is less likely to try again that if there is someone else that she thinks is the cat's meow. Once the luster of someone else rubs off, she might actually wonder whether she quit too soon. Just my opinion.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
