Thank you for the advice and I heeded it. I knew letting her go was the right thing to do and I had no problem with doing that. I was more looking for advice on how to respond in a manner that was non-threatening and let her know that I genuinely didn't mind her going. I just came here to make my fuss about it instead of to her. That's what this place is for right!!! It initially just hurt a little....but (and there always is..ME!!!) it seems to have worked out quite pleasantly.
Sent her an email just as suggested stating to go have a good time with her friend and we could do it another time. She responded saying that She would rather go to dinner and a movie with me and that she can go out with her friend some other time. She also wants to take the kids and I out to dinner Fri to a place we enjoy going to her treat.
I responded that she makes me smile!!!
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H: 33 (ME) WAW: 33 S: 10 D: 7 3/17/06 Wife left 10/4/06 D Final 9/30/07 XW states she wants to reconcile 10/7/07 XW starts process of moving back in
