her: Were you able to give S3 a bath before school?
me: no, but i did clean up his face and hands though, they were pretty dirty. do you want me to give him one before he naps?
her: I will give him one before church. He pooped this morning and tried to wipe himself because he said that you make him do that. OM checked it and he was really in need of a bath then, but there was not time. Also, he said that you did not let him wave to OM yesterday...
me: had i known that I would have given him one. i don't make him wipe himself, but he does try sometimes before i wipe him, which is fine....but he is 3, i wouldn't make him do it himself. i will bath him before he naps. he didn't see om until he rode out of the school parking lot.
her: That is not what he said. He said, "Daddy wouldn't let me wave to om today." Just telling you what he said.
me: he has also said that om put him in timeout for saying that he wanted to come by me....he is three, you take it with a grain of salt. he saw om riding out of the parking lot with xsts13 and said that he wanted to say hi, and i told him that he was gone and that he would see him later
her: Well that is just garbage...S3 has been an angel over at the house and has not needed a time out in months...and om would never say anything like that either. In the future, if he wants to say hi, just let him call.
me: just like i would never not let him say hi
her: In the future, please just let him call. Thanks
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Talked to C today. Id appears no meds will be given to S8. He said he is borderline, but thinks that his main problems can be taken care of behaviorly. XW is apparently not to happy about it. Will update more later, but S3 just found some hotdogs in his mac n cheese.....so we are in crises mode.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
Kind of a lot going on lately. In a huge rut. She is turning a lot of things around on me. Calling and b!tC#ing about me not "treating her like a human". I basicly said that if you insist on only communicating via email, then don't get upset when you misread the tone..... She changed the wording in several cases when throwing it in my face..... And I'm not allowed to say whatever anymore. whatever
I kind of got screwed out of having my kids on Sunday(my birthday), trick or treating is my day but it was the typical Richie laying down $#!t. And I admitted to her that I was pretty pissed about the way it went down. She then told me that their was a baptisim in her family that day. Which I can understand but don't wait 3 weeks to tell me. Anyway, I am learning that it is hard to stay so detached when you get all this emotion. Kind of sucks. It just never ends. So after all of the "I'm your babys mamma wheather you like it or not" crap she doesn't even have them call on my BDAY. WTF. Does it suprise me? No. But it still hurts. Again, whatever
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
s8 had an awesome c. unfortunately the c came up with the "wacky" idea that some of s8's problems may stem from the d. and the tests showed a constincy between s8's teacher and i. xw's results were higher in hyperactivity and anxiety. he wanted the majority of the appts to be with s and xw. you know where this is going, don't you? today at s4's checkup, pedeatrician informed me that she got a message from c saying that the appointments were cancelled and that he was closing the case, and that he was confused. so i stop on the way out of the doctors office. all the appointments from 11-14 till the middle of dec were cancelled by xw.
i warned him that is she felt a finger was being pointed at her that this would probably happen. i told him to keep us on the same level. these appointments were so good for s8. what a b!tc#. i have a message in to c to call me, i need to do something, he needs these appointments. doctors, teachers, friends on the same page to help this kid out, and his mother throws up a roadblock.
whatever, god forbid somebody suggest that your kid is having problems stemming from your sacred fu$#!ng divorce.....
fun and games as usual, it never ends
Last edited by blyndfaith; 11/16/0704:31 PM.
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