What is reasonable and what is not?

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The statement is posted and I haven't let myself look at it. I honestly know what I will find anyway. I think they are still in contact via phone and texts.

I have been writing down when he comes over and how long he stays. I went back about 2 weeks. We haven't spent any real time together since I had my amnio. Since then he pops in for 15 minutes, graces me with his presence and that is it. No real effort. Helps when you write these things down.

Here is another stupid thing I agreed to...dont yell. I agreed a few weeks ago to give him some money to go on his hunting trip. This was when he was attentive and nice and not on the drinking binge. I haven't given it yet, but I am sure he will want it in the next week or so as he is leaving on the 31st. With the way things are, I really don't want to anymore. I just don't want to sound like I am stomping my feet and mad because of the way things are and now I am withdrawing my offer. But right now he isn't deserving of a gift like that from me. How do I handle this?

Went dark. Haven't called him and he didn't even call me last night. Its so sad. He has a child coming into this world and he still acts like a selfish child.