Quick follow-up: Is this type of behavior typical for these rebound relationships (which may have started as an affair)? Almost all of my ex's friends have more-or-less told her to take a hike. They don't agree with what she is doing and have told her that in one way or another. Her current circle of friends don't dare say anything to her or think that what she is doing is just fine. I can't imagine driving nearly two hours just to get laid. Do they complain about their ex-spouses in their new relationships? Is this a shoulder to lean on now that everyone else is sick of listening to her complain about me? How long do these things go on? Does one pull up stakes and move in with the other? It's all happened so fast, it's hard to believe. I know - lots of hypotheticals. Just trying to understand what's going on in her brain.
