as far as how often he comes over. I have tried to be as accommodating as possible to allow him to see dd whenever he likes, but I fear that this has sent a message that _I_ am keen to see him as well and that's not necessarily the case (I mean I am keen to see him, but it's very uncomfortable and tense for me). He seems to be keener to spend time with me than to spend time with d, yet he still wants to live elsewhere and have his own life and date other women (in an effort to better his communication skills??? - weird man logic). quite frankly, I think that sucks and shows a fair amount of insensitivity for my feelings. though I'm sure if I accused him of this he'd pull out a whole lot of things that "show' otherwise.
I'm so confused.
CMC- This sounds so much like something I could have written (except H is not open about dating other women). H wants his space and time to "work out his issues" but he can come and go from our house as much as he wants and has been spending a lot of time here in the evenings, even after the kids are asleep. I want him to want to be here, but feel that he's not using the S to work on things, like he said he needed to do. Ugh, i am also so confused!
