My Ex seems to be really hot and heavy with the OM. I think he lives about 1 - 2 hours away. She sees him several times a week. This morning, we passed each other on the way to work. She complains about not having enough money and now probably spends half the child support I'm sending her on gas. I'm continuing to let go. I'm really trying to make a conscience effort to work on myself and avoid dating for a while. Going to a retreat this weekend. I've read all about these rebound relationships and how they usually fail. I'm not convinced of that in this case. I think they have only been seeing each other for about 5 months, but have no idea when they actually met. My ex is a completely different person from the one I was married to.
One upside is that my kids think I'm the greatest thing ever. Thank you to everyone on this board who has helped me out with comments and advice. It is really nice to know that people that you have never met can be so helpful. I hope I can return the favor to someone else.