Thanks SA,
You summed it up, I am her rock, and you're right, whatever she will do, I will still be there until the day I die. I realize that it sounds like I'm obsessed with my wife but that's how I've been for 22 yrs. She does know no matter what, I will be there for her. I know everyone says you need to do things for yourself and that no one else can make you happy, etc. But for me personally, being with my wife is what makes me happy. I know that may not sound healthy to most people but it's what makes me happy. I know you say you can't get a read on me because all I talk about is my wife, and that's because she is my life. I enjoy laying down in bed with my wife watching tv or talking. I enjoy listening to music together or watching a music concert together. I enjoy a nice meal with my wife. I enjoy talking walks with my wife. I enjoy doing things with my wife and children. So when you ask me what my passions are, it's these little things that we do together. I know it sounds lame but I am truly passionate about doing things with my family. Your suggestion about the road trip, is something that we've done together many times on our motorcyles are traveling with family. So unfortunately I don't have the desire or will to do these things on my own because everything I enjoy, we've done together.
I am sorry I can't be stronger or more independent.