My Journey Begins...New here

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So I am a little miffed about something right now and am seeking the advice of you all to help formulate a response...

Earlier in the week, xw had mentioned we should go see a movie together. I thought that was great and I aranged a babysitter for Saturday. Well, last night, she tells me that a friend of hers may come down to go out. I have to say I am hurt...while I don't have a problem spending time with friends and even her going and doing her own thing, but right now at this point of where things are, I feel it is important for us to spend time just her and I when we get the chance.

I am also a little uneasy about this friend as she is divorced herself and not the best promoter of healthy relationships. Last night the xw stated that this friend knows about us so it's not big deal....

So how should I respond about this? I really want to us to spend time together but don't want to cause any turbulance...