Please remember that they have no idea what they are doing/saying half the time.
Having contact does not always make things easier even though you think it might.
Having contact can mean more spewing and make you feel even worse, esp. if he is in that stage of this.
But you have to learn not to give in and use fighting words at/toward him because it makes things worse. They have a tendency to do that in this stage.
And if he is cordial, be polite and no R talks, esp. not now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
