GISH - if you can stomach it have you thought about getting her to move out again. You know she doesn't like being by herself. It did make her think about you and value you more. Could you get her to move out and tell her you will have your S9 and she can go do what she wants. OM we KNOW is not interested in commitment - he will fcuk her head up big time and spit her out.

If you want to stay married to her perhaps the best way is to let her see completely - no holes barred - what life is like without you. She will soon tire of it all and if she is living elsewhere you do not have to have the pain of watching it all play out. Stop enabling and supporting her. Throw her out.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength